Smoker/Ex-smoker interactions

Dear Good People, 
 
I'm beginning to date a fantastic guy who really enjoys smoking cigars. I'm an ex-cigarette smoker, so I have at least an indirect appreciation and respect for this. My normal habit would be to give it a try myself - and I am tempted, but I have heard that former cigarette smokers tend to inhale, which makes it quite dangerous. I also don't want to run the risk of becoming addicted to nicotine again, since I was a very heavy smoker back then and quitting took many years. So I guess I am happy to keep him company while he's enjoying a cigar, but can't share that with him. 
 
The problem is that my nose seems over sensitive to certain smells. Although I often enjoy the fresh smell of cigar and pipe smoke hanging in the air, the smell when it is older 'third hand' is really hard for me to be around. 
 
Is this something that I will become accustomed to? if things move along with the relationship, something that can be managed? I don't want to seem intolerant or make him self-conscious, especially since smoking is something from which he derives a great deal of pleasure. Is there something I can do to get used to it? 
 
I apologize, sincerely, if this offends anyone. I mean not to be obnoxious, but get some ideas on how other non-smoking/smoking pairs successfully manage olfactory differences. 

If you've had issues with kicking the cigarette habit before I certainly wouldn't recommend you to try cigars or pipes. It would likely put you right back into the same spot.

As for dealing with the smell, I'm sure you're not the only one in this situation. Perhaps the guys here can give you advice on what their significant others do to deal with the lingering odors.

My wife does not smoke. I never smoke in the house and always try to sit down wind when she with and I am smoking. Also, I shower regularly which I'm sure she appreciate!

So it's possible, then for someone to enjoy cigars on a regular basis and with conscientious hygiene & smoking habits, not smell of smoke all the time.   That's good to hear. 

I think most cigar smokers will tell you the same stuff as thinde did.  Don't smoke indoors or in the car.  After smoking, shower, throw clothes in the wash, brush teeth and maybe mouthwash.  It likely won't eliminate the stale smoke odor completely but it should reduce it a great deal.

Thanks, folks. This is encouraging. I appreciate your candid replies.   I won't be starting up with tobacco again, but I don't want to make my friend feel uncomfortable. Glad to hear that it can be managed. 
 
Be well and enjoy!

Wash up and get rid of ashes/butts quickly. Simple stuff.

My wife doesn't mind that I smoke cigars, she even joins me from time to time. I still try my best not to have that smell around for long, here are some of the things I do:
1. I sit next to a window with a fan blowing the smoke out.
2. When I'm done smoking, I get rid of the ashes and butts right away and wipe down my ashtray (unless it's a weekend where I might smoke 2 or 3 then I'll just leave the ashes in there till I'm done).
3. I go to the bathroom and use mouthwash.
4. I never smoke in my car.
 
I always do these things and my place never smells like cigars nor does my clothes. It might seem like a lot to do, but it doesn't bother me at all and I have been doing this since the first day I started smoking in my place.

Thanks JHolmes and Why Lie. 
Seems much of the issue won't be an issue with some basics.   I appreciate your suggestions!
Blake

I'm no expert at the search function, but there are candles and sprays that can midigate the odor.  
 
Maybe a trip with him to the stogie store and pick yourself up some candles or what ever. Plus you could find out what he likes for future gift ideas!