Nashkicker
Kick Ass Duke
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Ok does anyone know when this pit in my stomach will go away?
I havent felt this lost since my daughter was born. At least then I was happy beyond belief. My best friends wife adn I dont exactly get along. There has been tension between us for years.
I always thought it was because I brought out the wild side in Josh. Whatever the reason she never seemed to want to come to our house or be a part of our family. When they bought a house in Cairo, the fun really started. Josh had to be at our house 2 or 3 days a week for work. When he is on call he has to be within 20 minutes of the airport(mechanic).
With a wife and baby at home this can be very stressfull. We would invite her over all the time. In 3 years she has been to my home maybe 3 or 4 times.We are talking about my best friends wife.Since his son has been born we have seen the baby maybe 3 times and he just turned 1.
My fiance and I are getting married in October, she debated on whehter or not to invite Heather to her bridal shower or bachelorette party. She decided that she would try to reach out one more time. Not gonna happen! Like I said this woman wants nothing to do wiht us. For me that was the straw that broke the camels back. Up till this point I was fairly silent about all the BS but I just couldnt take anymore. I was even going to let it go that we werent invited to his sons baptism.
Josh is like a brother to me I just dont understand how things got to this point. Because we have no communication with his wife I shot her an e- mail explaining how I felt adn that I though this was going on for a long time.
That was last week. Josh was supposed to be over last night for work. When I got home no Josh just a pile of shit that he had borrowed from me and a note saying that he basically didnt want to talk to me and that he is not going to or participating in my wedding. (he was supposed to be my best man) Crushed....... I cant even describe the feelings I have right now. I would take a bullet for him. He wont answer my calls, and blames me for Heathers attitude towards my family. If he doesn't want to be a part of my wedding that is fine but to throw away a lifetime of brotherhood I just dont understand.
Come over here and kick my ass if you are mad at me. that is what brother do. I would gladly take the beating if I thought it would help!
Don't know if this post makes any sense but I had to put it out there. Thanks guys!
edit to increase reading comprehension.
I havent felt this lost since my daughter was born. At least then I was happy beyond belief. My best friends wife adn I dont exactly get along. There has been tension between us for years.
I always thought it was because I brought out the wild side in Josh. Whatever the reason she never seemed to want to come to our house or be a part of our family. When they bought a house in Cairo, the fun really started. Josh had to be at our house 2 or 3 days a week for work. When he is on call he has to be within 20 minutes of the airport(mechanic).
With a wife and baby at home this can be very stressfull. We would invite her over all the time. In 3 years she has been to my home maybe 3 or 4 times.We are talking about my best friends wife.Since his son has been born we have seen the baby maybe 3 times and he just turned 1.
My fiance and I are getting married in October, she debated on whehter or not to invite Heather to her bridal shower or bachelorette party. She decided that she would try to reach out one more time. Not gonna happen! Like I said this woman wants nothing to do wiht us. For me that was the straw that broke the camels back. Up till this point I was fairly silent about all the BS but I just couldnt take anymore. I was even going to let it go that we werent invited to his sons baptism.
Josh is like a brother to me I just dont understand how things got to this point. Because we have no communication with his wife I shot her an e- mail explaining how I felt adn that I though this was going on for a long time.
That was last week. Josh was supposed to be over last night for work. When I got home no Josh just a pile of shit that he had borrowed from me and a note saying that he basically didnt want to talk to me and that he is not going to or participating in my wedding. (he was supposed to be my best man) Crushed....... I cant even describe the feelings I have right now. I would take a bullet for him. He wont answer my calls, and blames me for Heathers attitude towards my family. If he doesn't want to be a part of my wedding that is fine but to throw away a lifetime of brotherhood I just dont understand.
Come over here and kick my ass if you are mad at me. that is what brother do. I would gladly take the beating if I thought it would help!
Don't know if this post makes any sense but I had to put it out there. Thanks guys!
edit to increase reading comprehension.