Last nite, huddled in my front porch cigar corner between the heat lamps (not too bad actually if above 25 degrees), SHE came out and commented on how good the Monty Petit Edmundo smelled. That NEVER happens! Not one to let opportunity pass, I said something sweet and sensitive, then offered her the cigar. The resulting "That's not as bad as I thought" I consider a complete and utter victory.
"So would you try one sometime - a small one?" I got a yes - from the girl who's never smoked anything in the 30 years we've been together (well maybe some experimental vegetation back in college). I'll be amazed if she ever tries more than one, but - if that one is a good experience, I'm thinking her tolerance of my indulgences goes waaaaaaay up. So, I'm wrestling with what would be better than "Not as bad as I thought"? I could stick with the Monty PE and be ready to finish it for her, or try something small and milder - I have some Short Stories that are ready - but what would you folks recommend for a first one for her? Any female advisers out there (SOTL?)? The ONLY goal is for her to have a good experience. Thanks, Buckee
"So would you try one sometime - a small one?" I got a yes - from the girl who's never smoked anything in the 30 years we've been together (well maybe some experimental vegetation back in college). I'll be amazed if she ever tries more than one, but - if that one is a good experience, I'm thinking her tolerance of my indulgences goes waaaaaaay up. So, I'm wrestling with what would be better than "Not as bad as I thought"? I could stick with the Monty PE and be ready to finish it for her, or try something small and milder - I have some Short Stories that are ready - but what would you folks recommend for a first one for her? Any female advisers out there (SOTL?)? The ONLY goal is for her to have a good experience. Thanks, Buckee