You mentioned elsewhere how you came to find in life that someone's upbringing and where they were from informs their values and outlooks, and that they may be different from your own. I think you absolutely nailed it with that idea. I think that when posting something (and this is not directed at you alone, Aaron, but an open sentiment), keep that in mind and ask yourself if a difference in upbringing and culture might give someone a different outlook on a subject and therefore be a "hot button" for them, or even outright offensive. I know there are some on here who are too manly to give quarter to others' feelings when those feelings directly contradict Manly Man's outlooks. However, take a moment to empathize with how someone might perceive a post, and prop up our brothers and sisters, rather than chop them down. We need to self-regulate (MOUNT UP!) by thinking of others, first. That doesn't mean you are own thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are being oppressed in favor of another's. It just means that CigarP Ass is not the venue for that particular discussion; it goes for the "other side", too.
My take, anyway. None of that is directed pointedly at you, Aaron -- I use the royal "we" and "you".