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Turning down bad cigars

True but cows are harder to catch... We don't have as many cliffs to corner them on.
 
Wyoming: where the men are men, the women are men, and the sheep are scared.
 
I alway take a 6 count pocket humi with me to such events with a few extra cigars for anyone who would like one inside.
 
Rod said:
Don't feel bad, just say no. I find myself bringing my own beer and cigars to almost every party I go to.
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Snob!


Oh ...and just say, no thank you.

If questioned just say you don't like that type and that it woulded wasted on you...I have.
 
I guess I stand alone here...when offered a cigar from someone else, I usually accept no matter what it is. Having smoked cigars for so many years and smoking a ton of crap along the way....what's one more? The fact is, having someone offer me one of their own and them knowing I smoke cigars, just makes them feel good when their offer is accepted. In the end, we're both fellow cigar smokers and should enjoy the pleasures of smoking a stick together....that's the important point.

If we all promote "smoke what you like & like what you smoke", in my mind I wouldn't feel right refusing their kind offer. Plus, once we both sit down to enjoy their gift, it gives me the opportunity to discuss with them what I usually smoke and guage to see if they are ready to take the next step in cigar smoking. If the discussion goes well and they express further interest, more times then not, we'll spark up one of mine as the next cigar and then I'll send them home with a few cigars out of my travel humidor to sample at their own pace.

I can't begin to count the number of times this has happened and how many people I have guided towards the premium cigar scene. We all have to start somewhere and if properly handled, we can turn someone on to this great past time.
 
Yes Gary...there is some politness behind accepting it....and I'm all for that! :thumbs:

Here are some whatifs:

If you don't drink Scotch and are offered some...would you take it?

How about liking green olives and being offered black?
 
ironpeddler said:
I guess I stand alone here...when offered a cigar from someone else, I usually accept no matter what it is. Having smoked cigars for so many years and smoking a ton of crap along the way....what's one more? The fact is, having someone offer me one of their own and them knowing I smoke cigars, just makes them feel good when their offer is accepted. In the end, we're both fellow cigar smokers and should enjoy the pleasures of smoking a stick together....that's the important point.

If we all promote "smoke what you like & like what you smoke", in my mind I wouldn't feel right refusing their kind offer. Plus, once we both sit down to enjoy their gift, it gives me the opportunity to discuss with them what I usually smoke and guage to see if they are ready to take the next step in cigar smoking. If the discussion goes well and they express further interest, more times then not, we'll spark up one of mine as the next cigar and then I'll send them home with a few cigars out of my travel humidor to sample at their own pace.

I can't begin to count the number of times this has happened and how many people I have guided towards the premium cigar scene. We all have to start somewhere and if properly handled, we can turn someone on to this great past time.
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Very well put sir. I would have to say I lean toward this philosophy as well.
 
ironpeddler said:
I guess I stand alone here...when offered a cigar from someone else, I usually accept no matter what it is. Having smoked cigars for so many years and smoking a ton of crap along the way....what's one more?
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Valid point, generally, but I believe the cigar in question was a Black and Mild or Swisher Sweet type... I've smoked crap cigars, too, but "no thanks" to those. :)
 
IMHO, a simple no thank you for the smoke should suffice. No explanation necessary.

Unless the event is advertised as BYOB, so as not to insult the host's hospitality, I drink what is offered or say no thanks if the proffered beverage is undrinkable swill. In the parts of the South where I was raised, bringing your own upscale drink would often be construed as elitist, snobbish and rude. If I know the people well, I might bring my own but , I'm certain to bring enough to share, even if the host is a close friend.

On the other hand, when I host informal events, like a herf, I let my guests know what I'm offering for beverages, usually decent wines, craft beers and fine scotches - both blends and single malts. If someone hints that the menu doesn't suit there tastes, I'll let them know that they are free to bring their favorite beverage.

Lots depends on the crowd, personalities, type of event. But a simple "no thanks" is always good eteiquette and you owe no explanation for the declination.
 
ironpeddler said:
I guess I stand alone here...when offered a cigar from someone else, I usually accept no matter what it is. Having smoked cigars for so many years and smoking a ton of crap along the way....what's one more? The fact is, having someone offer me one of their own and them knowing I smoke cigars, just makes them feel good when their offer is accepted. In the end, we're both fellow cigar smokers and should enjoy the pleasures of smoking a stick together....that's the important point.

If we all promote "smoke what you like & like what you smoke", in my mind I wouldn't feel right refusing their kind offer. Plus, once we both sit down to enjoy their gift, it gives me the opportunity to discuss with them what I usually smoke and guage to see if they are ready to take the next step in cigar smoking. If the discussion goes well and they express further interest, more times then not, we'll spark up one of mine as the next cigar and then I'll send them home with a few cigars out of my travel humidor to sample at their own pace.

I can't begin to count the number of times this has happened and how many people I have guided towards the premium cigar scene. We all have to start somewhere and if properly handled, we can turn someone on to this great past time.
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I couldn't agree more with this...well said.
 
I never ever bring my own beer to a party unless asked. As long as the beer is cold and free its good beer. If it is as SkyKing said "swill" I make a cup last a loooong time. I go to parties to enjoy the company of friends and not get blitzed.

I will bring a bottle of alcohol I like to a party and gift it to the host. If he or she decides to open it and put it out it is up to them.

As far as cigars go, I always bring a few to every party I go to. And I'll smoke a cigar I'm not too fond of if its offered, BoTL means something to me.
 
Wurm said:
I never ever bring my own beer to a party unless asked. As long as the beer is cold and free its good beer. If it is as SkyKing said "swill" I make a cup last a loooong time. I go to parties to enjoy the company of friends and not get blitzed.

I will bring a bottle of alcohol I like to a party and gift it to the host. If he or she decides to open it and put it out it is up to them.

As far as cigars go, I always bring a few to every party I go to. And I'll smoke a cigar I'm not too fond of if its offered, BoTL means something to me.
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Where does the BoTL phrase 'Smoke what you like.' come into play?

There's a difference between being polite and a being a martyr. :D

I see your point...I think of it this way as well, why not let someone who likes them (the ones I turn down)...enjoy them. They'd be wasted on me.

Then there's the offerings at a HERF...what about there?

Interesting observations all around.
 
I'm definitely in the group of folks who will accept if it is offered. I do enjoy smoking quality cigars, but I also love the social aspect and if someone brought a handful of black and milds along to share, well then, I will partake. When I thought I was cool in college I used to smoke them all the time, and now they sort of bring me back. :D
 
I was on the line of thinking, "Why waste someones else stuff?" I personally would decline it, but because I have college buddies, they love to push and prod, so I tell them I have a sore throat, and come over to my place soon and we will have a smoke... From my stock of course!
 
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