merkinmullet
Member
- Joined
- Oct 18, 2007
- Messages
- 400
I donated to the AVCS charity sale. I paid my $25, and received 6 cigars as a thanks for my donation. I do not know what has happened elsewhere or to whom regarding PMs and such. I am not defending Alan's purported actions, but only to the extent that I am satisfied with my end. Do my new sticks add up to $25, or $50? I don't know, and I don't care. Are they yard gars, dog rockets, or Opus X? I don't care. I made a donation and got a thanks. Some didn't see the OP as such; some did. That was bad communication, and from what I understand, Alan and other members had made the effort to right any wrong regardless of tone or inflection in their posts.
Now, this has turned into a CF where people are accused of throwing shit and baiting. I have read a lot, searched, read more, and posted little. I have had enough. This needs to be resolved. Those with beef need to man up and ask yourself, "what can I do to resolve this issue?" This is past the point of winning any argument; only understanding can win. People have hurt and have been hurt. We need to understand the other side's problems. We need honest, candid conversation without the need to win for that to happen. The forum is right here. What will make us feel better, vindication, or getting to know each other better and coming out in the end with a bit more respect given? I'll go for the latter.
Now, this has turned into a CF where people are accused of throwing shit and baiting. I have read a lot, searched, read more, and posted little. I have had enough. This needs to be resolved. Those with beef need to man up and ask yourself, "what can I do to resolve this issue?" This is past the point of winning any argument; only understanding can win. People have hurt and have been hurt. We need to understand the other side's problems. We need honest, candid conversation without the need to win for that to happen. The forum is right here. What will make us feel better, vindication, or getting to know each other better and coming out in the end with a bit more respect given? I'll go for the latter.