Story time...
Ok, I was working one day, then it was time for my lunch hour. So I had a quick bite, and with fifty minutes left, I decided to smoke a cigar. A Habana Leon to be exact. I was puffing it outside, went for a bit of a stroll, then leaned against the wall outside of my office, and continued puffing. Ah the flavors, the buzz, the aroma, I enjoyed every minute of it. Out of nowhere, an aquantence of mine came up to me and started talking.
"My friend, why are you smoking? I am very dissappointed!!! Are you that unhappy?"
I replied with "Huh?"
"My friend, over the years, I have developed this theory, smokers smoke because they want attention. They want attention because they are unhappy, lonely, low self esteem, so they spend money and engage in self destructive habits."
I replied with "I thought I was just trying to relax..." At this moment, I completely tuned him out and used a skill that worked wonders when I had conversations with my girlfriend. As he kept talking, I nodded my head at every pause and fired back with three simple answers "yes", "of course", "right".
"Blah blah blah blah"
"Yes"
"Blah blah blah blah"
"Of course..."
"Blah blah blah ba hum bug"
"Right..."
In the end, he went away and my girlfriend is now my ex-girlfriend. In the end, we smoke because we are unhappy, we crave attention, we indulge in self destructive habits as a cry for help.
Honestly, I can go on about the cigars, how many dirty looks I get from hypocrites, how many nasty remarks I recieve from passerbys, but I tend to focus more on the brighter side. Whenever a person tells me "Wow, that smells good." I fire back with a "Sir/Miss, you have excellent taste." I live in a country built on freedom... well not so much freedom as much as the idea of freedom. That's right, I am invoking my freedom to spread my cancerous byproducts and carbon monoxide. I tend to avoid places where I am not wanted, but if someone wants to make a point by putting me on the spot for smoking, I have no problem taking a big pull and blowing a voluminous cloud of death directly in their face, especially the little kids and parents.
Of course the rules change when I'm in someone else's house as a friend. Ok, you can call me a pansy now.
In retrospect, maybe I should have offered my aquaintence a cigar to shut him up. He could have helped me spread the cancer... er I mean he could have had an idea of what good taste is.