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She's going to listen to me now!

jfields

Where did all my money go?
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I've been telling my wife for some time that I'm not that fond of her talking on her cell phone while driving. She's made me nervous a few times while I was in the passenger seat. It was not an issue with her last phone because she had Blue Tooth with voice command, and it was basically like having a conversation with a passenger. Totally hands free, nothing to distract/fumble with while driving.
Well she got a new phone about a month ago, and was lazy about programming the headset to it.

I'm about an hour and a half away from home yesterday when I get a call from the county dispatch telling me she had been in an accident and was being taken to the hospital. I feared the worst because they would not give me any details, just that I needed to get there as soon as possible, and to pick my four year old girl from daycare.

Come to find out, she said she came up on a light and saw that it was green. She's not clear about what happened next, but when she looked again the car in front of her was stopped (even though the light was green). She slammed into the back of him at a pretty good rate of speed. The police that responded said there were sixty feet of skid marks up to the point of impact.
It came out later that she was fumbling with her phone to make a call. :whistling: Both our 03 Eddie Bauer Explorer and the car she hit were totaled. Fortunately, both she and the other guy will be okay. I spent the day taking care of a woman in a lot of pain who says she'll never talk on the cell while driving again........Unless it's hands free. She runs rescue as a Paramedic, so as a professional courtesy, the officer did not charge her with anything (Very lucky).

Glad none of the kids were in the car. I can replace a vehicle, but not her or the children.

I did not think the damage looked that bad from a quick glance when I saw it today, but the adjuster said that the impact was so hard that it shoved the engine into the firewall and broke the intake. He had no doubt that it would be a total loss. He stated that these rubber front ends are deceiving, making the damage look less than it really is.
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I spent the day taking care of a woman in a lot of pain who says she'll never talk on the cell while driving again........Unless it's hands free.
Jesus, John. I'm glad to hear that she's not seriously hurt.

But on the point of talking on a celphone while in the car, research has shown that it is not simply the working of the phone that is the problem, rather the distraction and diversion of attention from the conversation itself is a major factor in celphone-related car accidents. Studies in human attention research suggests that we can attend to approximately 4 things max, and 1 thing well. Driving is an activity that demands one's sole attention, IMO.

I'll get off my soapbox now and wish your wife a speedy and full recovery.

Wilkey
 
Good Lord, thanks for the picture, i have a habit of calling the wife while she's driving. Never again! Hope everyone is safe and what Wilkey said.
 
I spent the day taking care of a woman in a lot of pain who says she'll never talk on the cell while driving again........Unless it's hands free.
Jesus, John. I'm glad to hear that she's not seriously hurt.

But on the point of talking on a celphone while in the car, research has shown that it is not simply the working of the phone that is the problem, rather the distraction and diversion of attention from the conversation itself is a major factor in celphone-related car accidents. Studies in human attention research suggests that we can attend to approximately 4 things max, and 1 thing well. Driving is an activity that demands one's sole attention, IMO.

I'll get off my soapbox now and wish your wife a speedy and full recovery.

Wilkey


I apprecitae your input Wilkey...........Keep em coming. I plan on showing her this while the memory is still fresh. I do believe this was an eye opener for her. Maybe it can be for others as well.
 
wow, glad everyone is OK, sure says a lot for modern safety features. 20 years ago, that would have been messy. although it may not have happened without a cell phone involved!
 
I Hope your wife is going to be ok John, when the airbags come out, it's never a good thing, bumps and bruises from the airbag are pretty common but better than the alternative I guess.

The law has been handed down in CA, I forget the date, but they keep pushing it back, no handheld phones while driving, I see it every day, someone going 45 on the freeway phone in ear, people are bad enough drivers as it is, they don't need that distraction too.
there is a cool bluetooth device with a mic and a speaker you hang on the visor in the car, one of my co-workers has it, I thought that might be the way to go for me.

though I also have been distracted by my stereo too if I push the wrong button .... :blush:
 
John,
I'm so glad to hear that your wife it okay, and that your children were not in the car.

I know it's going to be a hassle dealing with the insurance, and having to shop for a new car, but thank god that is all you have to deal with.

Brent
 
Glad to be of help, John. For when you are ready to make your case, here are some of the studies that are truly eye opening with respect to phone usage and driver impairment.

I'll call you back.(people who use a hands-free cellphone while driving are four times more likely to have an accident). published in the New Scientist
People who use a hands-free cellphone while driving are four times more likely to have an accident. Paul Atchley, a psychologist from the University of Kansas, says most people can barely focus on four things at a time. Talking on the phone, listening and thinking about the conversation overloads the driver, taking too much of their mind off the road.

A comparison of the cell phone driver and the drunk driver. published in Human Factors
The objective of this research was to determine the relative impairment associated with conversing on a cellular telephone while driving. Background: Epidemiological evidence suggests that the relative risk of being in a traffic accident while using a cell phone is similar to the hazard associated with driving with a blood alcohol level at the legal limit. The purpose of this research was to provide a direct comparison of the driving performance of a cell phone driver and a drunk driver in a controlled laboratory setting. Method: We used a high-fidelity driving simulator to compare the performance of cell phone drivers with drivers who were intoxicated from ethanol (i.e., blood alcohol concentration at 0.08% weight/volume). Results: When drivers were conversing on either a handheld or hands-free cell phone, their braking reactions were delayed and they were involved in more traffic accidents than when they were not conversing on a cell phone. By contrast, when drivers were intoxicated from ethanol they exhibited a more aggressive driving style, following closer to the vehicle immediately in front of them and applying more force while braking. Conclusion: When driving conditions and time on task were controlled for, the impairments associated with using a cell phone while driving can be as profound as those associated with driving while drunk. Application: This research may help to provide guidance for regulation addressing driver distraction caused by cell phone conversations.

Conversation limits the functional field of view. published in Human Factors
The purpose of these two experiments is to investigate one possible mechanism that might account for an increase in crash risk with in-car phone use: a reduction in the functional field of view. In two between-subjects experiments, college undergraduates performed a task designed to measure the functional field of view in isolation and while performing a hands-free conversational task. In both experiments, the addition of the conversational task led to large reductions in the functional field of view. Because similar reductions have been shown to increase crash risk, reductions in the functional field of view by conversation may be an important mechanism involved in increased risk for crashes with in-car phone use. Actual or potential applications of this research include improving driver performance.

And, one for the litigation-minded.
Txt msgs and other driving distractions: high-tech devices are everywhere - including in cars. You need to find out if the defendant driver was focused on a phone call or a text message, rather than on the road, when the crash occurred. published in Trial
Because these devices have intergenerational appeal, there is a strong chance that any vehicle involved in an accident was operated by a driver who was distracted by one or more of them. Attorneys litigating motor vehicle cases must consider an evolving range of dangers and distractions that can be tied to liability.
Given the proliferation of high-tech devices, attorneys handling accident cases must consider the possible involvement of such devices from the earliest stages of investigation, through discovery, and at trial.


Wilkey
 
I had a similar situation on christmas eve in 2006, where I simply wasn't paying attention due to talking on the cell. I ran a stop sign across a busy street, not even paying attn to where I was. I look to my left, and felt the deer in the headlights....literally. The mercedes was bearing down on me at about 55mph, and t-boned me right in the driverside door. My car was spun 360 degrees, and thrown up into the median, airbags deployed. Needless to say, it was the shittiest Christmas ever. Fortunately, I as well learned my lesson the hard way about driving while on the phone. It's nothing to joke about, "accidents" do happen, but many can be prevented.

All fathers and husbands on here, please take this to heart. I feel like I was blessed to walk away that night, unfortunately, not everyone is always so lucky. John, Im glad your wife is alright, I wish her a speedy recovery.

Jake
 
Very very glad to hear she is ok!!! Sometimes it seems too much technology is not a good thing. Alot of us still use a cell phone and I know myself I have seen that I fumbled for a time that is just not necessary nor in the interests of good outcomes. Hope she and the other person involved heal fast and well!!

Don
 
Sorry to hear about your wife's discomfort, the accident, and the scare. I am glad, however, that everyone is okay. I am an investigator for an auto insurer, so I know how badly these things can turn out. Good luck and best wishes.
 
Wow, the pictures look pretty bad. I'm glad your wife will be ok.


As others have said, a hands-free device is the best way to go IF you are going to talk on the phone while driving.
 
I'm really sorry to hear that!!! I had another close friend get into very serious accident accident last Friday. Short version: towing his jeep, traffic over the hill, hit a gravel truck. HE had a broken arm and his wife a concussion. It's just important to always be careful. Glad to hear everything's good with your wife!
 
Glad to hear all involved are ok , always on the kids about this.

Maybe they will get something from this.

Best wishes and speedy recovery.

Paul
 
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