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So, when in hell was Memorial Day,

Devil Doc

When Death smiles, Corpsmen smile back
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Before 1971, Memorial day was not the holiday we celebrate today. It was not a three day weekend. It was not the beginning of the picnic season, nor was it start of the tourist season. It was a time to commemorate our war dead. I’d like to share with you all what Memorial day was like for a boy growing up in rural Vermont in the 50’s and 60’s

My grandmother was a Gold Star Mother, so our preparations started about 2 weeks before the 30th . My Uncle, 1st Recon battalion 1st Cav. Was killed at Kasserine Pass, North Africa in 1942. My Dad was with the 1st Infantry Div. 32nd field Artillery. How he survived, I’ll never understand. My grandfather was a WWI vet, who left the safety of the US in 1914 to serve in the Italian army. Anyway , we started our annual obligation by having the florist prepare two large urns with geraniums. Later we would haul them to the cemetery, place them on either side of my uncle’s grave stone, and finally plant a new Flag provided by the VFW.

I was also busy. I was a member of the VFW cadet corps drill team, and we practiced nearly every night the silent drill that we would perform in front of the reviewing stand at our annual Memorial day parade. We spent what other free time we had selling Buddy Poppies made by disabled Vets. I enjoyed this activity. It allowed us kids the opportunity to meet all the Veterans in town and listen to their war stories. We also would spend the Saturday before the holiday planting flags on those veterans graves who no longer had family in town.

Finally, the day would arrive. We would form at the northern end of Main St., every one nervous that they would fall out of step, or worse, drop their rifle in front of the reviewing stand. We had an old retired WWI Marine Gunnery Sgt. as our instructor and he would always make sure we were formed in front of the National Guard band , so we could hear the bass drum, and stay in step.

At 10am sharp the parade would begin. We would march down the length of Main St. under the century maples, planted in 1876 to commemorate the 100th birthday of the US. When we reached the reviewing stand, populated with various distinguished personages we performed our 15 minutes of silent drill, usually without a hitch, and then proceed to the court house park, where the monuments for the Civil War, WWI, WWII and Korea were. Here wreaths of red, white and blues carnations were laid with much pomp and circumstance, while we stood at attention, often in the heat of the noon day sun. Gunny Flint had trained us well, and not ever did a boy faint in formation. He had taught us to wiggle our toes and rock back and forth from heal to toe, imperceptibly, to keep the blood flowing and keep us from hitting the pavement. Earlier that morning a contingent of Navy , Coast Guard, and Merchant Marine vets placed wreaths in the Passumsic river for those lost or buried at sea.

After about an hour of speeches, all while standing at parade rest, the parade would leave the park, wind down Eastern Ave., up Maple St. and end, much to our relief, at the American Legion Post where the drinking , eating , horseshoe pitching and softball games would entertain us for the rest of the day.

Doc.
 
That was really amazing to read Doc, thank you for sharing it with us. It was really moving, and a nice reminder of how great things used to be. There seemed to be a lot more respect for our heroes back in those days, which is something I missed out on.

Thanks again for sharing Doc.
 
Odd how the longer we enjoy our freedom the more we forget the sacrifices that were made to achieve it.

On the brightside it's 30% off at Lay-z-boy.
 
Doc, thank you for the recollections, and most importantly, your family's service over the years.

God bless the brave men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice for the sake of our freedoms.

Best regards - B.B.S.
 
Odd how the longer we enjoy our freedom the more we forget the sacrifices that were made to achieve it.

On the brightside it's 30% off at Lay-z-boy.


It's human nature! the more we become accustomed to something, the more we take it for granted. History tells us we are due for a reminder sooner or later though.

IMO patriotism was very short lived after 9/11, with people enlisting and flying the stars and stripes afterward.
 
Odd how the longer we enjoy our freedom the more we forget the sacrifices that were made to achieve it.

On the brightside it's 30% off at Lay-z-boy.


It's human nature! the more we become accustomed to something, the more we take it for granted. History tells us we are due for a reminder sooner or later though.

IMO patriotism was very short lived after 9/11, with people enlisting and flying the stars and stripes afterward.
Thanks for sharing Doc!

I agree completely! I was a Sophomore in high school when that happened. I remember walking back from school, almost all the houses on the street had their flag flying high. That didn't last very long. Out of the 50ish houses on my mothers street, there is only 3 houses that fly their flags and one of them is my mom.

It is sad really how people don't care anymore.
 
Doc- thanks for the recollections- I remember some of that from my small town in the late 60's early 70's the VFW and Legion were strong and the Vietnam war hadn't really affected us with anti-war/vet sentiment like the cities. Souldog- part of the reason we have less of that sentiment now is that there are many fewer families with folks who have actually served now. In the 50's and 60's EVERY family had someone in their immediate family who served. The military has shrunk and the country has grown.... not to mention the last several wars the nation was never asked to contribute to the effort.... there was no Bond Drive, no Victory Garden, no gas, oil, rubber or food rationing... nothing that made the avg. American feel a part of the War Effort...we fought/fight off our GDP and Credit... something I'm sure that will boomerang on us sooner than later...but you get my point... a lower percentage of Americans actually know vets then back when Doc was a kid.... <BR><BR>Just like the Vietnam Vets in my town ensured that my buddies and I had the welcome home from Desert Storm that they didn't get- it's up to this generation of Vets to continue to take care of the next group of young men and women who return from defending our freedoms and ensure that this nation doesn't forget those who have sacrificed so much for their freedoms.<BR><BR>Just my 2 cents and change... R
 
Thanks, Doc. I wish more people would experience a true "memorial day" instead of the mega-huge-super-sale weekend we celebrate today.

Bill
 
Thanks for a reminder of a time where folks weren't distracted from "the family" and clearly had greater respect for it. We are grateful for your family's service.
 
Doc,

With all that Army in your bloodline how'd you end up a Navy Corpsman?

Hope you had a great Memorial day and were able to reflect in your own way

Cheers,

R
 
Doc,

With all that Army in your bloodline how'd you end up a Navy Corpsman?

Hope you had a great Memorial day and were able to reflect in your own way

Cheers,

R


My Father, an 11 yr. veteran of the 1st ID, simply asked me if I liked clean sheets and hot chow. Then like an idiot, I put corpsman on my dream sheet and got my wish.

Doc.
 
Great story Doc. Brought back a lot of memories from my childhood in the 60's. We had a monument around the corner where the service men would always stop, do drills, and fire salutes. I was way to young to understand the significance of the memorial, nor the other activities. Thanks for enlightening me. Now I am going to look that place up, and get a better understanding.
Best wishes to you and yours.

-Dan
 
Odd how the longer we enjoy our freedom the more we forget the sacrifices that were made to achieve it.

On the brightside it's 30% off at Lay-z-boy.


It's human nature! the more we become accustomed to something, the more we take it for granted. History tells us we are due for a reminder sooner or later though.

IMO patriotism was very short lived after 9/11, with people enlisting and flying the stars and stripes afterward.

I agree John, but those of us here in NY will never forget!
 
Beautiful story, Doc.

Thank you for sharing it and for your service.

I appreciate you telling about the century maples. Are any of those old trees still alive?
 
Doc, thank you for the recollections, and most importantly, your family's service over the years.

God bless the brave men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice for the sake of our freedoms.

Best regards - B.B.S.

I can't help but remember the way you spoke of your son in the Marines with such pride when we spoke at uptown after the QSH . Please say thank you to him for me and let him know my life will always be better because of men like him and the other brave men and women of our Armed Forces.

SW
 
Odd how the longer we enjoy our freedom the more we forget the sacrifices that were made to achieve it.

On the brightside it's 30% off at Lay-z-boy.


It's human nature! the more we become accustomed to something, the more we take it for granted. History tells us we are due for a reminder sooner or later though.

IMO patriotism was very short lived after 9/11, with people enlisting and flying the stars and stripes afterward.

Great post Doc.

Our country is such a different place today.
 
Great post indeed. My grandfather was buried under a flag, and it is indeed a different country today.

Personally, I took the time to honor him, and earlier ancestors who fought in the Revolution, and before that, King Philip's War. We've been here a long time, my family.

~Boar
 
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