No,I was joking.And making a comment about my observations.What amazes me is what seems to be a general lack of a since of humor in this forum.Truthfully,the posts I have read here are filled with people being rude to each other.My apologies about wasting peoples time here.As I feel I have wasted mine.I wish you all the best,but I don't think I'll fit in around here..
I hope I don't regret this :whistling:
In the event you're gone it doesn't matter.
In the event you are still looking: (from a fellow newbie)
The rudeness, lack of humor, etc. which you reference is easy to perceive if you come in here and handle your self improperly. I am not saying you did because I am not going to take the time to read all of your posts.
What I am saying is this......I think too many people especially lately join here, like I did, thinking "This place can provide
me with some great knowledge, or
I can meet some other BOTL's, or this place might give
me a way to HERF with some cool guys" In other words using this forum for
my enjoyment.
What I didn't realize until I had been here a while is that this forum is a family, a group of brothers and sisters, a well established core of good people! Yes there are those who appear to lie in wait for a newbie to make a mistake, and yes there are those who don't appear to have much humor, but if you realize that this forum is a microcosm of life you will subsequently realize that any aspect of life has those who are different. Additionally you need to understand that varying senses of humor don't come across too well on line.
At work we have asshats, in our families we have asshats, at the local club there are asshats, in your core group of friends you probably have asshats, but as with most aspects of life, the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
Take the time to see what really goes on here, earn the trust and friendship of a few people and you will love it here! Unless of course it really just isn't for you.
Edited for grammer................