May I make a suggestion....get an all in one camera with a nice zoom...canon makes 'em and so does nikon. The reason I say this is, you are investing in a system, not a camera. I have owned film slr's, several digital slr's, THOUSAND's of dollars in lenses, if you are looking for just taking snap shots here and there, and get a little creative and learn photography, get an all in one camera. Remeber, you can have a 500 megapixel camera, but if you do not know basics, all your shots will looks like snapshots, not photographs. A good photographer can use any camera and shoot a winner.
There was a point where I got sick of carrying around 30lbs of gear to catch the shot, especially on vacations and what not. Take it from me, lugging all that gear around is a pain in the butt, and makes a vacation work, so I grabbed an all in one just for travel. I would first jump to an all in one "pro-sumer" type camera (lens and all are in one package, usually a super zoom camera). These camera's still allow you creativity (aperture and shutter and manual settings) but free you from changing lenses (which you will do, because no one lens works in all situations) sensor cleaning (which is required when dust settles on the sensor) and spending a ton of cash on lenses and flashes. I take pics, and earn some income from this, selling to stock agencies, this is where DSLR's and pro quality glass are required. My last lens investment was $1700.00, just for one lens.
Just a little advice from someone who has been there and done that,
Rob