Matty_Vegas said:ggiese said:Matty_Vegas said:emodx said:Matty_Vegas said:emodx said:So calling him out in public about it prior to sending him a PM is the best way to handle it? ???Matty_Vegas said:I understand (for the most part ) why CC even started this thread..kinda a head up for others who may post on other boards to watch out for this guy...however...it seems to me when CC gets all lathered up...nobody is right but him..just an observation.
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I completely agree with what you are saying...I guess I am still not used to this whole messageboard thing, and really do not understand some type of sumbliminal pecking order that falls along with it...I guess I should be more active or post more often, as it seems that CC's posts I have seen tend to be inflamatory in nature..Nothing against CC himself at all..after all..someone has to be the bad cop..
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Not a pecking order. As a supervisor, I go by this saying a lot, "Praise in public, punish in private". There are time to punish in public, but not before you talk in private....
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seems like both sides of this coin could learn from that
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I'm confused, Matty - are you trying to impart wisdom, or start some trouble... ???
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Both actually...Some people can be put off by the whole "trial by fire" nature we have here. To an extent there is almost a "only speak when spoke to" mentality...If someone who does not have 5000 posts calls someone on something the individual thinks is wrong..the are instantly ostracised (sp?), which forces them to fire back..and starts flame wars and totally defeats the purpose of CP.
I think conflict is best resolved in private...not out in the open where yokels like me can toss thier proverbial hat into the ring...Sometimes I almost feel bullied, because I do not want to be ostracised (sp?)by Fogs who feel that thier post count means it is there job to police out fine messageboard.
just had to speak my mind
you may fire when ready...
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damn you Matty you made me post again lol
That wouldn't be your cowboy hat would it???? :laugh: