On March 28th this is what occurred via PM, in the span of about 2 hours.
Me
Hey man I just wanted to drop you a line and give you some advice, take it or leave it.
When someone on CP who is new becomes overly talkative, posting/replying random things it stirs up the forum.
You have been singled out because instead of taking it in stride, you're coming back at them with a little attitude. While "on the street" that might be okay, here it's not.
Imagine CP as a gym locker room, guys have been members here a long time, and are protective of their forum as we are a user moderated community.
Please keep this in mind in the future when posting threads, your infused threads were fine and "a-ok". But this is where you're going to be scrutinized on how you respond to some of the senior members calling you out.
Glad to have you on board.
My .02¢
Rowdy Guy
Thanks so much I hear this again and again, I didnt think I got a attitude there if I did whoops, I kinda saw that as just busting balls back thats all. THANKS.
Me
The busting is normal for new guys who are cutting their teeth, that will never change. I hate giving cheesy symbolism, but imagine a beginner martial arts student.
He will get told he's doing it wrong time and time again by his sensei, and even embarrassed in front of the other students. It is up to him to learn the ways of his master (cigars in this case) and to know how to react or not react in certain situations.
This not only gains him respect with current sensei, but also the other members of his group.
Rowdy Guy
I understand, thanks, i just need to stop myself, when I feel comfortable in the group, when i guess im not
Me
It's great that you feel comfortable in the group, and that is what we want. Bottom line is to read more post less in your first 4-6 months.
Asking questions is good, unless they've been asked 18 times already. Adding to threads is great, as long as it's personal experience and not biased opinion.
Even long time cigar smokers must start at the bottom, despite a massive amazing collection.
Put in the time, get this b.s. behind you and you'll be fine!
Peace!
Rowdy Guy
Thanks TTYL